Ask LU - The relationship advice thread

[joshie]

In other words:

Daddy issues: Sex Under Stage at 12 years old, leading into a full time role in the porn industry
Attentive caring father: Sex with right man

 

[Springs]

Cliffhanger is completely right actually. The girl who told me that story's father is on trial for drugs charges at the moment. And the boarding school girls are at well, boarding school, their fathers aren't around.

Oh and I meant school year 7-8, so ages 12-14.

 

[joshie]

If you guys heard of a 14 year old couple having sex, how would you react to that?

I am just curious!

 

[Scott Gourley's Lovechild]

Why are some women such pains in the arse? I posted a few months ago I had a girl I hooked up with while on holiday in Vietnam coming to stay for a week for more hook ups. She left today, and deadset you would of thought she expected me to want to marry her relocate back to England (she's English) and settle down. At the beginning it was fun, by the end I couldn't wait for her to bugger off quick enough!

Just had to get that out.

 

[Springs]

I wouldn't approve of any 14 year olds I know having sex, and I didn't when I did hear about it.

 

[AlwaysGreen]

Poor Karl and all the other silly humans and their emotions.

Here's a tip: if you've brought your daughter up the right way then she will be able to make choices in a reasonable way and form her own moral code. Whether that code differs from yours is a fact you'll have to either accept or battle with. If you battle with it you will lose no matter your tactics.

Most 13 or 14 year olds aren't banging away, despite the media hype.

Thus I have spoken.

 

[Raider_69]

yea im with the other here.
If you and your wife are good parents, the issue of sex, whilst daunting will be reasonably easily managed.
Karl you seem like a pretty decent dad, trust that you've brought your daughter up with ability to make her own choices and trust that they will be the right one's for her. Naturally you'll try and be protective, just dont over do, otherwise you risk her using that as avenue of rebellion. And make sure she keeps focusing on school work, coming into 15-16 years old, not a lot of boys will hang around the study nerd looking for a bit when there is loads of other attractive girls, who are happy to party it up and sleep around.

If she's focused on school and furthering her education, more than half your battle is won.

 

[Dani]

Ex mother in laws girlfriend is bagging me out to anyone that will listen. All over facebook and all. Who would have thunk the 50 year old women are so petty?

I did nothing wrong!

 

[Raider_69]

Uhhh noooo. She didnt!
You need to get up on all that shit and e-slap that bitch down!

 

[joshie]

Ex mother in laws girlfriend is bagging me out to anyone that will listen. All over facebook and all. Who would have thunk the 50 year old women are so petty?

I did nothing wrong!

hope things get better for you dani I am sure everyone on here will you back you up as being an awesome person <3, i mean, come on, you do support the Storm

 

[Raider_69]

hang on... ex mother in laws girlfriend...your ex mother is law is a rug muncher?

 

[IanG]

Starting to wonder if I should let my guard down. Whenever I'm around women I know I have no chance of getting with I have noticed I tend to win a degree of affection from. I don't know why but I tend to put a guard for some reason.

 

[Skinner]

Ex mother in laws girlfriend is bagging me out to anyone that will listen. All over facebook and all. Who would have thunk the 50 year old women are so petty?

I did nothing wrong!

He and they did not deserve you Dani...you are well out of it (or soon will be anyway).

 

[joshie]

has anyone gotten laid from this advice thread yet aha?

BF?

 

[Dani]

hang on... ex mother in laws girlfriend...your ex mother is law is a rug muncher?

Correct. And clearly not a nice person at all. I mean the things i could say about the whole situation are pretty bad but i kept them to myself. She's double my age and half as mature!

 

[Raider_69]

:lol: i always love that "guard" up stuff

do you genuinely believe that around women you are interested in that you purposely act unnatural. If that were the case, you stop it. You cant stop it because the unnaturalness or "guard" is an involuntary reaction to what you see as a uncomfortable situation


If you go out specifically with a purpose of letting the guard down, you'll wind up behaving more unnatural than before

 

[Raider_69]

Correct. And clearly not a nice person at all. I mean the things i could say about the whole situation are pretty bad but i kept them to myself. She's double my age and half as mature!

tell the Ellen DeGeneres wannabe to shut her dyke rug munching mouth. Or put a dick in it.

 

[Dani]

You have such a way with words... :lol:

 

[AlwaysGreen]

tell the Ellen DeGeneres wannabe to shut her dyke rug munching mouth. Or put a dick in it.

Soft.

 

[Raider_69]

Soft.

Not for long if she knows what to do with it