*Sandy*
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It`s all in the character, these kinds of incidents don`t just come out of nowhere, they come from the character of the offender. If he does this sort of stuff, then I`m sure he`s not exactly a great communicator and a caring, kind mate in the first place.
Usually they are. They can be quite charming which is a facade, a front which hides low self esteem of themselves. Many females stay in the relationship because they are and/or feel threatened. It's not just physical abuse, most of it is emotional abuse and it's the emotional abuse that is more damaging. Let's face it most men are physically stronger than females, once in a relationship like that, it's hard to get them to release their grip on you physically and emotionally.
Every situation is different and yes unfortunately there are a few who don't know any better and tend to be a magnet for these sort of relationships due to their upbringing but I wouldn't characterise Katie this way, she has only known him less than a year and lived with him 2 months. That's unfair to characterise her this way.