- upsetting men cracking onto me. as we all know, i am no great beauty (i wish) but sometimes i wonder if guys have any idea what they actually look like. it just dumbfounds me how some hideous freaks are so confident. do they just try it on every girl they meet in the hope one of them is too drunk or has low enough self esteem that they will get lucky?
I DON'T UNDERSTAND.
its even worse when its someone you have to be nice to for work reasons or whatever coz u cant just be all ARE YOU KIDDING ME WITH THIS, HAVE YOU SEEN YOURSELF?
i realise that makes me sound up myself but like i would never try and crack onto some insanely gorgeous guy, i always stick within my own league u know? everyone should to avoid uncomfortable situations.
It's a psychological issue, Kiki. No, I am not kidding - my sister the psychologist pointed me to the theory in her textbook. It basically says thus:
A man, no matter ho ugly or good-looking he is, will always aim higher. Let us assume, out of 10, he is a 5 - he will always go for a 7 or 8 even though common sense would dictate a girl who is 7 or 8 out of 10 wouldn't be caught dead with a guy who is a 5 out of 10...
But then ask yourself - how many attractive girls have you seen walking around at the arm of a fairly ugly man? Cynics will tell you it's because they are rich. I can tell you I know a few mates of mine who are ugly as Amy Winehouse's gooch and not rich who have
gorgeous girlfriends.