$$Poor Boy Blues$$
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you know, we are all dancing around the real issue here, and the media are playing up to the fact that NO ONE REALLY wants to touch on the real issue
The girl. (because when you get to her, the whole case falls apart...poor Matt!)
She was consensual to it all.
She really is just emmotionally fragile. Some girls are wackjobs, some are great. You cant come in and say yes please boyz, fk me wild, then try and destroy everyone afterwards.
Why isnt she taking some responsibility for her actions and going "I agreed to it, i must admit now i think about it, its not my cup of tea, i do regret it, but its time to move on to something more positive in my life"
(im married now with 2 kidss but) I've dated many women. I've lost count. More than 50-80. Keep going. I would like to think Im just average as most guys I know personally have done about that. Now let me tell you out of that number, 80% of the women to my mind, just dont fit with me. Lots are just plain crazy.
Its got nothing to do with standards, or picking the wrong girl...its seriously just a probability/numbers game.
And this is why I feel sorry for Matt. How the hell was he to know that this chick was a wack job. Between you and me and the public, girls who go for group sex - usually are little bit 'out there'.
It takes a special kind of 'compromised' girl to love group sex. Compromised temporarily in that she wants to try something rebellious/new/whatever...or compromised indefinately in that she perhaps had a messy upbringing/bad ideas about love and enjoyment.
The healthiest kind of sex is the one on one kind. There is a difference between the guys using it for fun and HER using it for therapy!
So yes, I do feel sorry for Matt.....as the girl needs to own up to herself and get over it. IF it was consensual, and the boyz, the cops and her all said it was at some stage.
Thats what I dont get. Johns is really the fall guy, and this chick from nz looking for payback is a total b!tch.
We all make bad choices everynow and then, but this guy is paying for it over the top....he did nothing wrong apart from being unfaithful.
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In society there is nothing more taboo than sex. Gallops comments are totally out of place here. It was group sex, so what, it was consensual, she's a wack job, and the media are lapping it up....because the majority of people still have a stigma about sex.
Those who get lots of sex - believe me - dont have a stigma....but with most guys getting only 4 or 5 sexual partners in a lifetime, its no wonder stigma exists.
The girl. (because when you get to her, the whole case falls apart...poor Matt!)
She was consensual to it all.
She really is just emmotionally fragile. Some girls are wackjobs, some are great. You cant come in and say yes please boyz, fk me wild, then try and destroy everyone afterwards.
Why isnt she taking some responsibility for her actions and going "I agreed to it, i must admit now i think about it, its not my cup of tea, i do regret it, but its time to move on to something more positive in my life"
(im married now with 2 kidss but) I've dated many women. I've lost count. More than 50-80. Keep going. I would like to think Im just average as most guys I know personally have done about that. Now let me tell you out of that number, 80% of the women to my mind, just dont fit with me. Lots are just plain crazy.
Its got nothing to do with standards, or picking the wrong girl...its seriously just a probability/numbers game.
And this is why I feel sorry for Matt. How the hell was he to know that this chick was a wack job. Between you and me and the public, girls who go for group sex - usually are little bit 'out there'.
It takes a special kind of 'compromised' girl to love group sex. Compromised temporarily in that she wants to try something rebellious/new/whatever...or compromised indefinately in that she perhaps had a messy upbringing/bad ideas about love and enjoyment.
The healthiest kind of sex is the one on one kind. There is a difference between the guys using it for fun and HER using it for therapy!
So yes, I do feel sorry for Matt.....as the girl needs to own up to herself and get over it. IF it was consensual, and the boyz, the cops and her all said it was at some stage.
Thats what I dont get. Johns is really the fall guy, and this chick from nz looking for payback is a total b!tch.
We all make bad choices everynow and then, but this guy is paying for it over the top....he did nothing wrong apart from being unfaithful.
____
In society there is nothing more taboo than sex. Gallops comments are totally out of place here. It was group sex, so what, it was consensual, she's a wack job, and the media are lapping it up....because the majority of people still have a stigma about sex.
Those who get lots of sex - believe me - dont have a stigma....but with most guys getting only 4 or 5 sexual partners in a lifetime, its no wonder stigma exists.
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